EMDR

What is EMDR?

Aug 16, 2025

EMDR Butterfly Hug

If youve ever felt stuck in painful memories or experiences, youre not alone. Sometimes, even when we know something happened in the past, our body and mind still react as if its happening right now. Thats where EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy can help.

EMDR is an evidence-based treatment originally developed to help people heal from trauma. Today, its widely used to support recovery from PTSD, anxiety, panic, grief, phobias, and other difficult experiences. It helps the brain reprocess painful memories so they no longer feel overwhelming or stuck.

How Does EMDR Work?

Think of your brain as having a natural healing systemsimilar to how your body knows how to heal a cut. Trauma and overwhelming stress can sometimes block that healing. EMDR helps remove those blocks.

During a session, your therapist will guide you to focus on a specific memory while introducing bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements, tapping, or sounds that move back and forth). This process helps your brain refile the memory in a way that reduces its emotional charge.

Instead of reliving the memory with the same intensity, youre able to remember it without being flooded by fear, shame, or sadness.

What to Expect in EMDR Sessions

  1. Preparation Well start by creating a sense of safety and teaching you calming strategies you can use anytime.

  2. Targeting memories Together, well identify the memories, beliefs, or triggers youd like to work on.

  3. Reprocessing Using bilateral stimulation, well help your brain digest those memories in a new way.

  4. Healing beliefs As the distress decreases, youll naturally begin to replace painful beliefs (Im not safe, Im not enough) with healthier ones (I am safe now, I have worth).

Benefits of EMDR

Research shows EMDR can lead to:

  • Reduced anxiety and emotional distress

  • Better sleep and concentration

  • Relief from nightmares and flashbacks

  • More confidence and self-compassion

  • A greater sense of peace about the past

Many clients describe it as finally feeling unstuck.

Is EMDR Right for You?

EMDR isnt about erasing memoriesits about changing how they live in your mind and body. If youve been carrying the weight of trauma, painful experiences, or anxiety that just wont let go, EMDR may help you find relief.

At Peace Point Therapy, I use EMDR alongside other approaches like CBT, IFS, and Gottman Method (for couples) to support healing that lasts.

Final Thoughts

Healing takes courage, and EMDR offers a path forward thats both gentle and effective. You dont have to keep reliving the pastyour brain has the ability to heal, and therapy can help guide the process.

If youre curious about EMDR or wondering if it might be right for you, Id love to talk with you.

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